Joy is the foundation for a positive life. Our world lacks joy and has way too much fear, worry, discouragement, and depression these days. We need to fully trust God and have joy even in the hard moments and seasons of life. It we are not fully trusting our Father, then we will never be able to experience pure joy.
Biblical joy, the true joy, comes from filling the spiritual void with good relationships, mostly the intimate relationship with the One who is pure joy. Jesus put it this way: “I am the vine, you are the branches. He who abides in Me, and I in him, bears much fruit” (John 15:5). That fruit includes much joy!
The Bible speaks much more often of joy than of being happy. “Hap” means chance and is the root of several words— happen, happening, haphazard (dependent on mere chance), hapless, happenstance (a chance circumstance) and happy.
Happiness is a glad feeling that depends on something good happening. God wants you to experience happy times (as long as God approves of what is happening). But His greater desire is that you have unconditional joy. Jesus said His joy would “remain in you” and “your joy no one will take from you” (John 15:11; John 16:22).
Think of joy as a strong foundation that supports a variety of healthy emotions, including happiness. The long-range evidence of joy is general gratitude, contentment, optimism, a sense of freedom and other positive attitudes.
The Holy Spirit produces these things in our life. It is important that we know and understand them well, so that we can apply them to our lives. When the fruit of the spirit is at work in our lives, amazing things happen. Your whole life blossoms and bears fruit. One of the most wonderful fruits of all is the giving and receiving of love.
The word love can mean many different things, as you can see from the many different dictionary definitions. We also find different kinds of love throughout the Bible, four of them specifically. Eros is the Greek word for sensual or romantic love. Even though the term is not found in the Old Testament, Song of Solomon vividly portrays the passion of erotic love. Storge is a term for love in the Bible that you may not be familiar with. This Greek word describes family love, the affectionate bond that develops naturally between parents and children, and brothers and sisters. Philia is the type of intimate love in the Bible that most Christians practice toward each other. This Greek term describes the powerful emotional bond seen in deep friendships, this is the most common type of love. Agape is the highest of the four types of love in the Bible. This term defines God’s immeasurable, incomparable love for humankind. It is the divine love that comes from God. Agape love is perfect, unconditional, sacrificial, and pure.
There are so many people who go through life without feeling human love. However, God’s plan is for every person to eventually experience His love flowing through them, so that each person can say “my cup runneth over with love.” The funny thing is that when people are trying to feel love they often forget to read the greatest book ever written about relationships, the Bible. The Bible reveals how we can experience love for God and people that exceeds human capability. The highest and purest form of God’s love is God’s divine and sublime love that He offers to share with us! The perfect example of the ultimate nature of God is, “He who does not love does not know God, for God is love” (1 John 4:8). God wants to transform us so that our character is also defined by love.