A Proverb a Day Keeps the Folly at Bay #1

Old Testament: Jeremiah 25-26

Poetry: Proverbs 16

New Testament: 2 Peter 3

Over the next few days, I’d like the reader to notice how much wisdom is condensed in each of Solomon’s pithy proverbs and how they can help us live better. Sound good? When looking at the Proverbs (or any Old Testament passage), we must always remember that, though these passages were written before Jesus was born, it is both appropriate and beneficial to interpret and apply the passages to our lives in light of the revelation of God’s son. Each time you read a passage in Proverbs, consider taking a deeper dive into just one verse to see how the reflections of someone a few thousand years removed from our modern context can still have relevance to our plight in this broken world.  

The proverb I want to consider and meditate on today is Proverbs 16:22, which in the English Standard Version goes like this:  

“Good sense is a fountain of life to him who has it, but the instruction of fools is folly.” 

I’m not sure if good sense has ever really been common or if “common sense” is what Solomon would consider good. From my perspective (maybe I’m just getting old and crotchety at 29), there isn’t much good sense flowing freely in our society–just turn on the TV or scroll down your social media feed. There is some, however, and where it is found, it is like a fountain flowing within an oasis in a barren, desert land.  

I’ve heard (though I can’t remember where) that most people who get behind the wheel of a car (the number I heard was above 90%) in both this country (USA) and in the land of our cousins across the pond (GB) believe themselves to be above-average drivers. If you consider this for a moment, you will realize how absurd this is. I think most people (I would guess north of 90%) have at least a small blind spot in their relationship to reality. I know I have at times overestimated my ability to maneuver a motor vehicle at high speeds (no accidents, yet…not a high speed, anyway).  

This inability to see ourselves in relation to the world clearly could be called folly, while the ability to do so can be deemed wisdom. The wise person, who has good sense, will receive instruction, discipline, and correction as a means of growth. The foolish person, who has a lack of sense, will see things such as teaching, reproof, and direction as an unnecessary waste of time, something only for those who “need” it. Because of this, the wise will continue to flourish like a tree soaking in the life it receives from water and nutrients, while the folly of the fool will ensure the continued degradation of their weakly rooted weed–that is, their inner life. 

This proverb takes on a new meaning in light of the Good news. Jesus gives living water and refreshes and restores those who have the good sense to recognize their need for him. Despite our lack of self-awareness, if we turn our attention to Jesus–that is, if we are aware of our need for his help, mercy, and kindness, we can drink from the fountain of life in a new sense (in the best sense). To see Jesus and not recognize our need for him as Savior is the highest form of folly. Exercise good sense and drink the water that satisfies like nothing else.  

-Joel Fletcher

Reflection Questions

  1. On a scale of 1-10 how would you rate your own “good sense”? How do you think those who know you well would rate you? Are there any specific areas where you might benefit from a more accurate view of yourself and reality?
  2. Do you recognize your need for Jesus to be your Savior? If so, how would you explain it to someone who didn’t?

How to Be Stupid

Proverbs 11-13

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Tuesday, January 24

 

How have you used your “fountain of life” today (Proverbs 10:11)?  Did you know when to keep it shut?  Can you think of a time when you used it (your mouth) to nourish others?   In today’s readings there are several more excellent verses reminding us again of the power of our words.  And of course we know that “With Great Power Comes Great Responsibility”.  Some verses worthy of being great refrigerator verses are:

11:12 – A man who lacks judgment derides his neighbor, but a man of understanding holds his tongue.
12:18 – Reckless words pierce like a sword, but the tongue of the wise brings healing.
12:28 – An anxious heart weighs a man down, but a kind word cheers him up.
13:3 – He who guards his lips guards his life, but he who speaks rashly will come to ruin.

My guess is we can all quickly think of a time when someone’s words pierced us, and also a time when someone’s words healed us.  Can you also think of a recent time when your own words pierced another?  What about brought healing or cheered up someone?   How can we make a better plan for our mouth so we don’t just say the first thing that comes to mind, which can lead to ruin?

How about experimenting with ranking your mouth at the end of each day for the next week or two.  A big fat score of 0 would be for a day filled with piercing words spoken rashly: accusations, angry outbursts, rudeness, gossip, lies or twisted truths, put-downs (even in jest? It’s not really funny), boasting, manipulating, cursing and foul language, I’m sure you can think of more.  And of course our goal would be a shining 10 score for a day full of polite speech, genuine compliments, thankfulness, apologies, forgiveness extended, words of encouragement and sometimes sympathy, morsels of truth at just the right moment, Godly wisdom and Bible verses shared – and none of that nastiness that automatically pull your score down.  From day to day be looking for ways to grow your own score.  Be more mindful of how you use your words  – and sometimes more appropriately, your gift of silence – and the impact it has on those around you.   Hold yourself accountable for the proper use of your fountain of life.  For only then will you be called righteous.  (10:11)

There is so much more wisdom and lessons for the one seeking to live a righteous life!  Come to think of it – Proverbs also has great advice if you are aiming to be a stupid fool.   Solomon could have titled Proverbs, “How to Be STUPID”.  Proverbs 12:1 is a great start: “Whoever loves discipline loves knowledge, but he who hates correction is STUPID.”   And, since reading it once isn’t always enough . . .

13:1 – He who ignores discipline comes to poverty and shame, but whoever heeds correction is honored

13:10 – Pride only breeds quarrels, but wisdom is found in those who take advice

12:15 – The way of a fool seems right to him, but a wise man listens to advice

Raise your hand if you think you are right most of the time.  My hand goes up.  Guilty as charged.  No doubt it is my pride that makes me think I am right and they are wrong.  Sometimes, I AM right.  But, when I am WISE I will realize and accept that I am also sometimes wrong.  I have been, am and will be wrong, in need of correction and discipline and sorely in need of advice.  Why should I even LOVE discipline (12:1)  – because I want more and more to be as Godly as possible (Be holy, because I am holy – I Peter 1:16)– and right now there is still a pretty huge gap between God’s holiness and mine.   Dear God, help me grow a more humble spirit that accepts correction well.

So many great proverbs, so little time.  We sadly won’t go into detail about the sluggard, pig snout, chasing fantasies or husband’s crown or so many others.  But just one last nugget for those who want to be wise. “He who walks with the wise grows wise, but a companion of fools suffers harm” (13:20). If you desire to avoid harm (and I sure hope you do) – choose your companions carefully.  Don’t waste your time searching for perfect people to be friends with – that can be a real disappointment.  But choose to spend your time side by side with those who are seeking to grow closer and closer to the Father.
Keep Growing!
God Bless,
Marcia Railton