1 Kings 1-2 and Psalm 37, 71 & 94
Today we begin the book of 1st Kings. We are just about to the end of the kings anointed by Samuel. Yes, David died at the end of 2nd Samuel…but the author of Kings begins with some more details from the end of David’s life before he spends the first half of the book on the reign of Solomon. Unfortunately, I am not altogether impressed with this final picture of the man after God’s own heart.
And, it starts with his parenting. Now, I have never been a ruler of a country, much less, the ruler of a country 3,000 years ago. So, it is easy for me to pass judgment on a life I have never lived and one that seems so far removed from mine. But perhaps we can learn a little something from David’s troubles to help us be better parents – as well as improved spiritual parents.
So, at this point David is old (about 70 years old) and the kingdom will be handed down to his son to reign. Only trouble is – which son? Earlier Absalom had tried to take over the throne – but that didn’t end too well for him. David has said that Solomon will be the son to rule. But, his son Adonijah wants to mix things up and come out on top instead. So, Adonijah puts together his cheering squad and cabinet – including his dad’s formerly faithful army general and priest – and announces his kingship.
The author of Kings is not nearly so removed from David as I am and does not exactly point the finger at David, but merely hints (with a note in parenthesis) as to a potential weakness found in David’s parenting style. The writer explains, in parenthesis, “(His father had never interfered with him by asking, ‘Why do you behave as you do?’)” How many times do we as parents THINK that of our children? And, perhaps we outright asked that a lot when they were younger, “What are you doing?” But as they grow up and we lose control, or hand control over bit by bit as they get closer and closer to independence, do we too often not “interfere” and ask the sometimes difficult question. Obviously the author here believes that if David had started an open and honest dialogue with his son about his behavior earlier on, this sad story of rebellion may have been avoided.
Perhaps you are not a parent, at least not yet. If you are a young adult what can you learn from David and Adonijah? Is there a time you desired communication with your parents but didn’t get the direction or reprimand you later thought could be helpful? You can be the one to start the dialogue if they haven’t. What could have happened in our story had Adonijah come to David to seek his advice? Or, are you frustrated with “too much” interfering and questioning? Remember it comes from a deep love for you and desire to see the best for you – and the whole kingdom.
And, then how can this lesson be applied to us as spiritual children and parents today? Who can you mentor in their Christian walk? How can you better prepare yourself for a conversation that might one day have to start with, “Why do you behave as you do?” Sometimes, love interferes. And, when you are on the receiving end, remember some of those great Proverbs from Solomon that we get to read next week!
Whoever loves discipline loves knowledge, but whoever hates correction is stupid. – Proverbs 12:1
Those who disregard discipline despise themselves, but the one who heeds correction gains understanding. Proverbs 15:32
Today’s Bible reading can be read or listened to at https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=1+Kings+1-2%2C+Psalm+37%2C+71%2C+94&version=NIV
Tomorrow’s reading will be Psalm 119:1-88 as we continue the 2020 Chronological Bible Reading Plan