By Wisdom a House is Built

Genesis 47-48

*Proverbs 24

Matthew 11

My husband and I both grew up in families that were involved in the building industry. His family had a building/remodeling company in Minnesota and my family provided materials for the industry in Michigan. We were both raised with a knowledge and understanding for the industry so when it came time to build our own home, we were super excited to take on the task.

We didn’t just wake up one day and say let’s go build a house! It was a process with very specific steps; first, you needed a blueprint to know what you are doing. There are building codes you need to adhere to. You also don’t want to use cheap materials or cut corners. Wisdom is needed in the construction process.

Today’s proverb uses building as an analogy, in 24:3-4 it says “by wisdom a house is built, and through understanding it is established; through knowledge its rooms are filled with rare and beautiful treasures.” The term house in the Bible also can mean home, family or even legacy. Here Solomon is telling us that we need wisdom (an understanding of knowledge and the fear of God) to establish our home and family. Establishing a family is also a process where you want to make good choices, plan ahead and measure risks. Most importantly is the foundation of your family; you need it to be “established” on a firm basis of Godly wisdom so it will withstand the storms of life. The result will be that your rooms (or life) will be filled with rare and beautiful treasures (children, relationships, community).

Jesus reinforces this principle in the New Testament with the parable of the Wise and Foolish Builders. In Matthew 7, he illustrates that if you build your life on obedience to God and the teachings of Jesus, then your house will be built on the rock.  When the storms of life come at us, the house will stand firm. Whereas if you build your house like the foolish man on the sand, you will ultimately fall (cue Sunday School song here).

If we want our families, marriages, parent/children relationships, etc. to succeed in the way in which God would desire our relationships to be , then we MUST operate in the wisdom of God. We cannot depend on our human wisdom. James 1:5 says if any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him.

Establish your life and family on the firm foundation of God and his wisdom, and you will have a structure that withstands the storms of this life!

Erin Bormes

(Originally posted for SeekGrowLove on October 24, 2019. I loved this devotion years ago, and the writer. But even more so now! A few months ago, her oldest married my youngest which makes me super thankful for the wisdom with which she and her husband built their family.)

Reflection Questions

1. Erin described wisdom as “an understanding of knowledge and the fear of God”. How would you define the fear of God? What is an understanding of knowledge without the fear of God? What is the fear of God without an understanding of knowledge? Give some examples of how an understanding of knowledge combines with the fear of God to create wisdom.
2. Looking back on your own life thus far, can you see some wise house building? What was involved in this process? Can you also see some foolish building without a firm foundation? What did that look like and what was the result?
3. What plans and action steps would you like to set in place now to be working towards the wise construction of your house/home/life/family/legacy?

Prayer

Dear God, I praise You for being The Architect of all wisdom, and for generously sharing Your perfect wisdom with us. Forgive me for the times I have made foolish decisions, sometimes based on fear of others instead of fear of You, and sometimes just plain selfish or lazy. Thank you for the Bible and the community of believers that teach and encourage wise building practices. Help me, and my family, and my church family, listen well and apply them to our lives. I pray specifically for your wisdom as I make plans and proceed with… (choose one or two areas of your life).