Numbers 21-22







News of this reached the ears of the church at Jerusalem, and they sent Barnabas to Antioch. When he arrived and saw the evidence of the grace of God, he was glad and encouraged them all to remain true to the Lord with all their hearts. He was a good man, full of the Holy Spirit and faith, and a great number of people were brought to the Lord. Acts 11:22-24


18 Like a maniac who shoots deadly firebrands and arrows,
19 so is one who deceives a neighbor
and says, “I am only joking!”
Proverbs 26:18-19
There’s a popular show on HBO called Game of Thrones. And whether you’ve ever seen it or not, it has become a meme factory. And there’s one line that is currently making the rounds on social media: “When enough people make false promises, words stop meaning anything and then there are no more answers. Only better and better lies.”
Like the boy who cried wolf, this proverb is a warning that words are powerful. Although we want to believe that only sticks and stones can break our bones, words can often cripple us in a way that no wound ever could. I think it is probably fairly rare that we intentionally fire hurtful words at those around us (although when tempers flare I have unfortunately found a sharper tongue than I ever expected in my mouth). What is really dangerous are the words we throw at someone else veiled in jest.
I learned this from Andy Cisneros, but in every piece of sarcasm there’s a little nugget of truth. Something real about the thing we’re pretending to say but really meaning. While we may find them easy to move past at times, sarcastic words erode away at us like water through a canyon. They’re poison pills wrapped in sweetness and given in bitterness.
We may not consider ourselves to be con men – deceiving our neighbor intentionally – but we deceive ourselves and shoot arrows at our neighbor when we pretend that the words we say don’t have weight to them. This proverb encourages us to become people who use our words wisely, to mean what we say, and to engage with each other genuinely so we can build a better community together.
-Graysen Pack

20 Whoever gives heed to instruction prospers,
and blessed is the one who trusts in the Lord.
21 The wise in heart are called discerning,
and gracious words promote instruction.
23 The hearts of the wise make their mouths prudent,
and their lips promote instruction.
28 A perverse person stirs up conflict,
and a gossip separates close friends.
I picked a few verses from chapter 16 to show you that these verses only work if you apply them. If you put it into practice. That’s why I like what the writer put in verse 31.
31 Gray hair is a crown of splendor;
it is attained in the way of righteousness.
I like this verse because 1. I have a lot of grey hair 🙂 but more than that I think what he is saying is that when you continue to apply wisdom consistently (day after day, year after year) you can look back at your path and see the pitfalls that you missed because you chose wisdom over folly. What a joy it is to have walked the right path, to have rallied right and to be able to look back and say thank you God for protecting me. I have been married 19 years to an amazing woman. I love her more today than I did when we first got married because we have stacked together great accomplishments in those years. We have a bond through good times and bad times and have trust and love that only comes through time. That’s what I want for you. Apply wisdom. See it work in your life. be consistent and see that God’s way is better than man’s. God bless and I am praying for you.
Pastor Andy
