Friday, July 22, 2022
Song of Solomon contains poetry written by Solomon. Some people try to spiritualize it, suggesting it describes the relationship between God and a follower of God. Those who think that have obviously not read it. Song of Solomon describes the intimate relationship between a husband and a wife, sometimes a little graphically. If you’ve never read the Bible before, the Song of Solomon just might pique your interest. I’ll share a few verses from chapter 2.
SoS 2:2 says, “Like a lily among thorns is my darling among the maidens.” Husbands and future husbands take note. Highlight what you appreciate about your wife, and make sure she knows it well and often. But the praise must be sincere. And if it’s appropriate and if she would appreciate it, make sure you extend this praise publicly. But don’t just stop with praise. Treat her like she is precious because she is.
SoS 2:4 contains part of the wife’s response, “His banner over me is love.” All by itself, this sounds pretty weird. I think this is saying that her husband is publicly proclaiming his love for her – sort of like writing it on a flag, and waving it around for everyone to see. He is not ashamed to acknowledge her publicly. Again, husbands take note.
In SoS 2:6, the wife goes on to say, “His left arm is under my head, and his right arm embraces me.” I’ll leave it to your imagination to consider their position and presumed activity. Husband’s again take note. If you shower your wife with love. If you make her a priority, and she knows it. If she knows you’re never ashamed of having her at your side. Things will go a lot better with your love life.
She goes on to say in SoS 2:7, “Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires.” I would say that differently. I would say “save sex for marriage” – and then, it is a wonderful blessing from God for both husband and wife to enjoy to the fullest together.
In his reply, in SoS 2:15, the husband says, “Catch for us the foxes, the little foxes that ruin the vineyards, our vineyards that are in bloom”. I think the idea here is that there are always little things that can attack the relationship, and these things need to be caught and stopped. Some examples may include selfishness, pride, never admitting that you are wrong, finding fault, unforgiveness, mistrust, etc. All of these have to be dealt with and removed in order for the love to blossom and flourish.
In SoS 2:16-17, the wife says, “My lover is mine and I am his; he browses among the lilies. Until the day breaks and the shadows flee…”. She is talking about how exclusive the marriage relationship must be. (Unfortunately, Solomon didn’t do very well in this regard. Maybe she should have said, “my lover is mine, and I am his and a thousand other women are his.” Can you imagine how that would make your wife feel – if this wasn’t an exclusive relationship? Husbands, again take note.
And you have to love that part in verse 17 where she says, “until the day breaks and the shadows flee…”. It sounds like she is talking about being intimate all night long. So, husbands, if you want verse 17, you have to have to practice verses 2 and 4 and 7 and 15. In other words, if you want a great sex life in your marriage, adore your wife. Let that show in everything you do and in every way you treat her, and you will see results.
Oh yeah, and do the same with your relationship with God, and you’ll see great results there too – both now and forever.
- If you aren’t married yet – what is the greatest take-away you found in Song of Solomon 2?
- If you are married – what is the greatest take-away you found in Song of Solomon 2?
- Why do you think God included Song of Solomon in the Bible?