But it is Fleeting – so Live Wisely!





If you are just jumping in now, I have been pulling out a few lines in Proverbs that stand out to me, but I encourage you to do the same – you will likely find different ones!
22:6 Start children off on the way they should go, and even when they are old they will not turn from it.
My mom always tells these horror stories from when I was a young child about how I was a nightmare to deal with (I’m sure she exaggerates…), but that didn’t mean that she just accepted it. She tells me she prayed and asked that God would turn my stubborn, strong-willed self to be stubborn and strong-willed for God. I can’t say that I have done a perfect job, but I know I am thankful for the prayers my mom said. I don’t hit people in anger anymore (or throw whatever is in my hand across the room when I get mad). Though I sometimes struggle to stay on fire for God, I am trying to do what I can to stay faithful through it. The attribute of being strong-willed has been put to use in staying steadfast even when I go through times of struggle. If you are the child who was raised in the faith and is still in it, thank your parents! If you are someone who has children or plans to someday, keep this in mind. It starts young.
4 Do not wear yourself out to get rich;
do not trust your own cleverness.
5 Cast but a glance at riches, and they are gone,
for they will surely sprout wings
and fly off to the sky like an eagle.
Finding a balance between providing for life and accumulating wealth can be difficult. Most of us want to have nice things in life, but it can consume us. That first line stands out to me – “Do not wear yourself out to get rich;” If I am so focused on work that I am worn out everyday, or don’t have time to spend with my family, I don’t think that is right. Don’t get me wrong – there are plenty of other places in the Bible that tell us we should be hard workers and not to be lazy (see next section), but overworking yourself just to gain wealth doesn’t feel right. You might not be able to get everything you want, but learning to be content with what you have is for the better. Contentedness is something I have been working on the last few months. What I have is enough.
24:30-34
30 I went past the field of a sluggard,
past the vineyard of someone who has no sense;
31 thorns had come up everywhere,
the ground was covered with weeds,
and the stone wall was in ruins.
32 I applied my heart to what I observed
and learned a lesson from what I saw:
33 A little sleep, a little slumber,
a little folding of the hands to rest—
34 and poverty will come on you like a thief
and scarcity like an armed man.
Being lazy leads to an inability to thrive. We have to find that balance of hard work, but not letting it consume us to where gaining possessions becomes our sole focus. How are your priorities? Where is God on that list?
We are moving out of Proverbs tomorrow, so enjoy these little bits of wisdom!
~Stephanie Fletcher
Today’s Bible passage can be read or listened to at https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Proverbs+22-24&version=NIV
Tomorrow we jump from Proverbs (many of Solomon’s writings) to 1 Kings 5-6 and 2 Chronicles 2-3 to read some of the events of King Solomon’s life and reign. We return to the rest of Proverbs next week on our 2020 Chronological Bible Reading Plan.

I encourage you to read these chapters focusing again on what stands out to you. Depending on where you are at in life right now, different words of wisdom might stick. Here are some that stuck out to me:
19:11 – A person’s wisdom yields patience; it is to one’s glory to overlook an offense.
I’m someone who tends to hold grudges. Especially if I wasn’t asked for forgiveness. When someone asks, I am usually willing to offer it, but the thing is, people don’t always ask. And sometimes I perceived I was wronged when the other person doesn’t see it that way. This proverb reminds me that it is better to forgive and move past an offense than to let it sit and weigh me down.
19:20 Listen to advice and accept discipline, and at the end you will be counted among the wise.
Accepting correction isn’t easy. I tend to bristle at it (especially when I know it is something I did wrong, or need to change). It puts my defenses up, and I imagine many others feel the same. But when we accept proper discipline, we come out better. We learn and grow, and don’t continue to make the same mistakes. It is an important part of life to heed Godly advice and discipline, even when we don’t like it.
21:30 There is no wisdom, no insight, no plan that can succeed against the Lord.
This one is an encouraging one to end today’s thoughts. Sometimes it can feel like in this world, evil is winning. That people have made their plans, and they are succeeding despite it being contrary to God’s ways. So here is your reminder: they won’t win out in the end. Nothing can succeed if it is against the LORD. We might feel weighed down and defeated when we see evil prevail, but we know how it ends. We know who wins. And it isn’t evil.
I’m writing this while life is weird. We are stuck at home, not going to church (I don’t think I have ever not been to church on Easter Sunday), many people not going to jobs, not having dinner with families, not enjoying a dinner out. But we can have peace when we remember that no matter what is happening now, God has a plan, it will come to be, and we can look forward to eternal life.
~Stephanie Fletcher
Today’s Bible passage can be read or listened to at https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Proverbs+19-21&version=NIV
Tomorrow’s reading will be Proverbs 22-24 as we continue seeking and growing in God’s way during our 2020 Chronological Bible Reading Plan

For those of you that don’t know, I love Disney. Like, a lot. But one thing that often bothers me about many of the movies is the message to follow your heart. It sounds nice, but I know if I always followed my heart, I would not be in a good place. The beginning of Proverbs 16 reminds me of this.
If we just follow our hearts, we are likely to go the wrong way. We need to seek the LORD, and He will establish our steps (16:9). When we set our hearts on the LORD, then we become the wise. When we are the wise, then we become the discerning (16:21), the ones who say what is right (16:23). There are examples of many kinds of people in these chapters, but one thing is clear – all of the good things come from God.
A couple other of the lines of these proverbs stood out to me:
17:6 Children’s children are a crown to the aged, and parents are the pride of their children.
I have a daughter, and I know how much she is loved by her grandparents. I may have even heard them say something like grandkids are better than kids. What really struck me in this one is that parents are the pride of their children. Am I living a life that my child would be proud of? I mean, she is almost 2 right now – she loves everything I do. But give it a few years – are my actions worthy of her pride? Maybe some of you reading are parents and can ask yourselves this. Maybe some of you are younger – direct yourselves to that first part – are you living a life that makes you a crown to your grandparents?
18:21 The tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit.
When we talk, do we think about this big of an impact in what we say? The power of life and death. Sometimes we (or at least I) say the first thing that comes to my mind, and it is not always the best thing. If I could remember this proverb, would it make me take the time to think about what I am going to say before I say it? I hope so.
As you read through these chapters, spend some time focusing on the lines that stand out to you. Take time to examine the parts of your life that might be calling out as you read these Proverbs.
~Stephanie Fletcher
Today’s Bible reading can be read or listened to at https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Proverbs+16-18&version=NIV
Tomorrow’s reading will be Proverbs 19-21 as we continue the 2020 Chronological Bible Reading Plan

We have already covered the first six chapters of Proverbs and they all center around wisdom. We are now moving on to chapters 7 through 9, which focus on……..drum roll please…….wisdom. Wisdom must be really really important. Proverbs 8:19 says wisdom is better than pure gold and Proverbs 8:35 says those that find wisdom find life and obtain favor from the Lord. Wisdom is clearly something everyone should have and use, but why do so many people come up short in this area?
Where is wisdom stored? In the brain. Wisdom is the ability to process information correctly and that is all done in the brain. Many people actually have a pretty good brain that correctly tells them the difference between right and wrong, but they do not always follow the right path because of the brain’s nemesis, the heart. We have many sinful desires in our hearts because we are selfish beings.
There are some people that have evil desires in their heart and their brain is lacking wisdom, so they are going to struggle in life until they search out some wisdom. They will always do the wrong thing because their brain and heart are in agreement and working together. They can accomplish a lot together, but none of it is good.
The rest of us are in another group that are wise enough to know something is right or wrong, but struggle to always do what is right because of our heart’s selfish desires. That is called temptation and we all have it. When temptation arises, our heart and mind go in to battle. Our heart has two main tactics in this fight. First, it may try to get us to ignore what our brain might say about the sin. Second, it sometimes engages the brain and tries to convince the brain that the sin is ok. This is called justifying the behavior. The heart is very strong and can be very persuasive. In order to do the right thing, the brain must be stronger, which is where wisdom comes into play.
The brain must know the difference between right and wrong to stand any chance of beating the heart (don’t be confused here – we still want the heart to keep beating). That wisdom is found in the Bible and it needs to be searched out, but that is just the start. If you want to make sure your brain is strong enough to defeat the heart, you can’t just “know” what is right and wrong, you need to “understand” why it is right or wrong. Understanding comes with a lot of reading, thinking, learning from others, and praying.
Proverbs 7 tells of a story where a man is seduced by a married woman who was not his wife. He gave in to the temptation because he lacked enough wisdom to fight it. He probably knew it was wrong, but he didn’t understand all the consequences. The lost trust and ruined reputation that he may never get back, the pain he caused his family, sexually transmitted diseases, getting the woman pregnant, a broken nose from the husband when he finds out, and the guilt he will feel because he let God down are just some of the reasons why God tells us not to have sex outside of marriage. Once you take the time to understand why something is right or wrong, the brain will be much more powerful and most likely will win the fight against the heart.
But wait, it gets even better. When a brain has enough wisdom and understanding, the brain can convince the heart to change its desires. The heart can be trained to agree with and follow the brain! This is the ultimate goal, and this is why wisdom is so important. James 4:2-3 says that you do not have because you do not ask God. It goes on to say that you do not receive when you ask because you ask with the wrong motives, that you may spend what you get on your pleasures. Simply put, your heart is not right. So, it stands to reason that if your brain convinces your heart using Godly wisdom, you will get what you ask for because your desires will line up with God’s desires. In this case, when the brain and heart are in agreement and working together, they can accomplish a lot together, and it is all good.
Rick McClain
Today’s Bible reading can be read or listened to at https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Proverbs+7-9&version=NIV
Tomorrow’s reading will be Proverbs 10-12 as we continue seeking God’s wisdom on our 2020 Chronological Bible Reading Plan

This is going to get a little weird since I am happily married. I am also in a relationship with another woman. I love her, I prize her, I embrace her, and I guard her because she is my life. She watches over me, exalts me, honors me, places a garland of grace on my head, and has presented me with a crown of beauty. We are truly in love. Her name is…Wisdom.
Proverbs says wisdom is a lady and chapter 4 describes the relationship you should have with her. When a man falls in love, he usually falls pretty hard. He can’t stop thinking about her and will do anything for her. He wants to be with her and just can’t get enough of her. I suspect the same is true for women, but I don’t have any experience with that. I suspect this analogy was written to make us understand how important wisdom is and how it should be an integral part of our life. We need to search out wisdom, especially in the Bible, and not forget about the wise teachings from our parents growing up. We need to be in love with wisdom as much as that guy was in love with that girl in “The Notebook”.
Why is wisdom so important? It is because it will lead us on the straight path and keep us away from evil. Chapter 5 tells us to beware of the sweet lips of the adulteress and her words that are smoother than oil. If you are married, you should rejoice in the wife of your youth. In verse 19, it talks about your wife’s breasts. I can say that because it is in the Bible. If you think the Bible is too boring to read, you haven’t read far enough yet. Verse 19 is not boring.
I love the book of Proverbs because there is so much “quick-hitting” wisdom that gets right to the point. In chapter 6, out of nowhere, it lists six things the Lord hates, seven that are detestable to Him. I admit that the wording is a bit confusing here. Is one of the things detestable to Him, but He doesn’t hate it? If so, which one? Anyways, if you are wise, you will pay attention to the list of things God thinks is detestable:
Maybe the confusion between the list being 6 or 7 is that #2 and #6 seem to be quite similar – I dunno. You can quickly read this list and move on to the next verses; however, if you are in a relationship with Wisdom, you will slow down, study this list, and put it in your heart and mind. This is your chance to see into the mind of God. I am fascinated to learn what God thinks! When you embrace the wisdom that is found in scripture, you are embracing the wisdom of our all-knowing Father. He knows everything – and that is a lot of stuff to know. I am extremely grateful that He has put so much wisdom in a book for us to read. The opportunity we have to become wise is right there for the taking. You just need to take the time to search it out.
Rick McClain
Today’s Bible passage can be read or listened to at https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Proverbs+4-6&version=NIV
Tomorrow’s Bible reading will be Proverbs 7-9 as we continue to seek the things of God’s mind on our 2020 Chronological Bible Reading Plan

How do you become smart? Are you just born that way? Do you have to go to school to get smart? Proverbs 1:7 says that the beginning of knowledge is to fear the Lord. You will start down a path of intelligence as soon as you fear the Lord. You might be a great doctor or an impressive lawyer that studied a long time to get where you are, but if you don’t fear God, you aren’t that smart. Fear seems like a very odd first step in becoming intelligent, but let’s talk for a second about why that is true.
Why should we fear God? Well, He knows everything, has the power to do anything He wants, has been around forever, made everything, is in control of the whole world, and could squish you like an ant if He wanted to. That is really intimidating! If you are not fearful of someone with that kind of power and control over your life, you probably don’t really believe He exists. If you don’t believe He exists, you’re not very smart. The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge.
The first step in becoming smart is to fear God, but what are the next steps? You may think that certain people are born intelligent, that some people are just naturally smarter than others. That may be true to an extent, but wisdom is not going to just automatically happen for you. Proverbs 2:4 says that you need to search for wisdom and understanding like it is a hidden treasure. It takes the action of searching on your part to become wise. Proverbs 2:2 mentions that you need to make your ear attentive to wisdom and incline your heart to understanding. You need to study the Bible and listen to what it has to say and listen to what wise Christians may also be telling you. You need to open your heart and mind to the possibility of changing your mind and learning from the Bible and others. You may think you already have all the answers and can handle everything on your own, but you don’t and you can’t. Verse 3 goes on to say that you need to cry for discernment and lift your voice for understanding. You should take the time to ask God for wisdom, and not be scared to ask others you can trust for their help or advice.
On a side note, in Proverbs 1:20 it mentions that wisdom is a “she”. Gentlemen, take note of that. I don’t think it is just a coincidence that the author says wisdom is female.
There are many benefits of wisdom mentioned in today’s chapters:
Fear God, search for wisdom, study the Bible, listen to wise Christians, be open to different viewpoints, and ask God for wisdom. That is how you become smart. And once you become smart, you will live longer, have special protection, be at peace, have riches, have honor, and be happy. Seems like the smart thing to do.
Rick McClain
Today’s Bible passage can be read or listened to at https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Proverbs+1-3&version=NIV
Tomorrow’s reading will be Proverbs 4-6 as we learn more about wisdom on our 2020 Chronological Bible Reading Plan