Usually, when we watch a movie we are introduced to a hero or heroic group to root for. We want the “good guy” to win and the “bad guy” to lose. We need to see Batman defeat the Joker or 007 to defeat the agents of SPECTRE.
Occasionally, though, the filmmaker sneaks one by us and we find ourselves rooting for the anti-hero. The show Breaking Bad did an outstanding job of getting us to root for Walter White who morphed from being an ordinary hard-working science teacher husband and dad to Heisenberg, the drug kingpin of the southwest who poisoned people with his methamphetamine creation.
I recently saw someone post on Reddit that he realized later in life that the movie Top Gun had us rooting for Maverick instead of Ice Man when clearly Ice Man was the far better pilot and person. “Iceman was the only pilot that: actually obeyed the rules, was a skilled flier, never killed anybody in the entire movie and correctly identified all of Maverick’s faults.” Yet we were all rooting for Maverick.
To that, I will simply add that I can’t imagine why anyone would ever root for the evil New York Yankees, Dallas Cowboys, or Alabama Crimson Tide. (I’ll stop before I make some more lifelong enemies).
The spirit of this age is constantly working to pull people away from finding joy in truth. The Bible contains an epic story about our hero, a loving God who creates a place where everything is good and populates it with people in his divine image to care for the earth, who are opposed by those he created. But God loves this creation so much that he will stop at nothing to find ways to rescue and restore that which is lost and broken and corrupt.
We are currently living amidst the ongoing battle against that which is true and right. People are daily undermining what is good and just and loving and claiming that that which is evil and corrupt is good, and that which is good and holy is evil.
For Paul, true love does not root for the villain or the anti-hero. True love does not rejoice that evil is victorious. True love finds its joy in the truth that is consistent with God and God’s love.
Jesus predicted that before the end of this age, there would be a decrease in love. In Matthew 24:12 Jesus says: “And because lawlessness will be increased, the love of many will grow cold.” When people reject what is true and right, when people reject the ways that God lays before us to keep a rightly ordered society, it will result in a loss of love. Lovelessness is the natural outgrowth of lawlessness.
Jesus said “I am the way, the truth and the life.” (John 14:6). If you want to have true life, you have to follow the path of Jesus, the path of truth. Paul says essentially, you can’t find love if you reject God’s truth. You can’t truly love God and love people if you don’t love God’s truth.
Today, ask yourself, “Are there things in my life that I know are the opposite of God’s truth?” If you answer “yes”, you must be willing to reorient your life to pursue God’s truth and rejoice in God’s truth to practice true love.
Pastor Jeff Fletcher
Reflection Questions
Why do you think increased lawlessness results in failure to love the truth?
Why is society becoming more enamored with anti-heroes who are opposed to truth?
Happy hump day! We’re here in the middle of the work/school week. Are you tired of hearing about love yet? Like that TV advertising guy used to say: “But wait! There’s more.”
Sometimes, the best way to learn about what something is is to consider its opposite.
In verse 5 Paul gives three more examples of what love is NOT.:[Love] does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful;
For the past almost 40 years, I have lived with the most beautiful, amazing, wonderful woman. This woman has patiently served alongside me as a pastor’s wife in places far from her family and friends. She even let me drag her halfway across the world to England to start a church with a toddler in tow and she was “great with child” as in, about to pop. She has been a great wife to me and a mom to our 11 children.
I love her more than anything on the planet and her name is Karen. Sadly, the name Karen has, in recent years come to be associated with a certain kind of middle-aged woman who is, shall we say a bit entitled, difficult to please, and hard to get along with. The woman who “asks to speak to the manager” is referred to as a “Karen”. I like to tell people “My wife is named Karen but she is not a Karen.”
Why do “Karens” cause endless eye rolls? Because they are very insistent on getting their way, they tend to be easily irritated by normal human flaws and frustrating situations, and they carry resentment towards those who upset them, they are not quick to forgive and give people a second chance.
If the Apostle Paul was writing to today’s Christians he could simply say “Don’t be a Karen” and would easily get his point across. Instead, Paul might say be an Annabelle, which means “loving” or for a male be an Amadeus, which means “love of God.” (Although for many Annabelle was ruined by the horror movie franchise bearing that name. For older people like me the name Amadeus was ruined by the movie about Mozart- a talented musician and horrible person).
Instead of being a Karen who insists on having her way, be an Annabelle who, as Paul says in Philippians 2:3 learns to “value others above yourselves.” Instead of being a Karen who is irritable or easily angered be an Amadeus who is “slow to speak and slow to anger.” (James 1:19). Instead of being a Karen who is resentful, be a person who practices forgiving “70 times 7” as Jesus taught. (Matthew 18:22).
By now you might be wondering, does Paul want me to become like, a whole different person by doing all these practical, loving things? Paul wants us to allow the one perfectly loving person, Jesus, to radically take over our lives. To be so full of God’s spirit and love that “to live is Christ.”
Pastor Jeff Fletcher
Reflection Questions
Can you think of a time when you were around a “Karen”? How did that make you feel?
Can you think of a time when you acted like a “Karen”? How do you think it impacted others?
What are concrete ways that you can show love by valuing others above yourself?
Yesterday we saw that Paul is not interested in talking about love as an abstract concept. Abstract love is worthless. True love is only proven to be of value by concrete actions. In today’s reading, 1 Corinthians 13:4 Paul starts giving concrete examples.
Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude.
We could pick out any one of those examples and do a deep dive into what patience looks like versus impatience or what kindness looks like versus cruelty. But I think we could place them under one major subheading. If love is the main theme of this chapter, the subheading over these 6 things is humility. Humble people will tend to be more patient. Think about it. If I think I’m better or more important than the other person, I’m going to demand that my needs take priority and so I’m going to be impatient with the server in a restaurant, or the cashier at checkout, or the secretary at the doctor’s office. Impatient people tend to think that their time is more valuable than anyone else’s so their needs should be met now. And of course, if they are impatiently placing demands on other people they are not likely to be expressing them with kindness. Patience and kindness are concrete examples of love in the form of humility.
The other four examples Paul gives, envy, boasting, arrogance, and rudeness are all the antithesis of humility. They are all driven by pride. “Why should my coworker get the promotion, she doesn’t deserve it. I’m a far better employee than she is and I have several examples I’d like to give you about why I’m much better than she is.”
I read a story earlier this week about a famous basketball player. The NBA gives out individual accolades to players and they announced the top three finalists for defensive player of the year. The reporter asked this player how he felt about not being one of the finalists for that award. He proceeded to rant about how “The NBA just doesn’t like me. I deserve that award more than any of them, I’m the best defensive player in the league.” When I read his response I felt disgusted about his arrogance put on such vulgar display with his rude and demeaning words about literally everyone in the league. But this is how things are in the world. We’ve come to reward boastful, rude, and arrogant people.
Narcissism is no longer considered a character flaw but makes one a popular candidate seeking high political office. Have you seen how rude certain candidates are as they call others rude names like children on a playground? Humility is seen by many in the world’s eyes as weakness. But not in God’s eyes. James 4:6 says “God resists the proud, but gives grace to the humble.”
Jesus taught the importance of humility so clearly when he said “Blessed are the meek (humble) for they shall inherit the earth.” Matthew 5:5
He told a very vivid story comparing and contrasting a proud person and a humble person in Luke 18:9-14: He also told this parable to some who trusted in themselves that they were righteous, and treated others with contempt: “Two men went up into the temple to pray, one a Pharisee and the other a tax collector. The Pharisee, standing by himself, prayed thus: ‘God, I thank you that I am not like other men, extortioners, unjust, adulterers, or even like this tax collector. I fast twice a week; I give tithes of all that I get.’ But the tax collector, standing far off, would not even lift up his eyes to heaven, but beat his breast, saying, ‘God, be merciful to me, a sinner!’ I tell you, this man went down to his house justified, rather than the other. For everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, but the one who humbles himself will be exalted.”
The world rewards the proud and arrogant boasters who brag about how great they are. True love is evidenced by the humble who don’t think too much of themselves but rather show patience and kindness to others. As the character Forrest Gump said: “I’m not a smart man, but I know what love is.”
Pastor Jeff Fletcher
Reflection Questions
Can you think of someone who you would describe as humble? What behaviors make you think of them as humble?
Why does our culture seem to reward arrogance in places like sports or politics?
CS Lewis said that “Humility is not thinking less of yourself but of thinking of yourself less.” How can thinking of yourself less help you to love others more?
For the rest of this week, we are going to be looking each day at small sections of one chapter in the Bible- 1 Corinthians 13. When I was a kid I was taught that 1 Corinthians 15 is the Resurrection chapter, Hebrews 11 is the Hope chapter, and 1 Corinthians 13 is the Love chapter. If you’ve ever been to a wedding ceremony there is a good chance that you’ve heard all or at least a portion of this read as part of the ceremony. Today we will look at verses 1-3:
If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. And if I have prophetic powers, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. If I give away all I have, and if I deliver up my body to be burned, but have not love, I gain nothing.
This is such a timely reading for me to consider. For the past 3 years, I’ve been working toward receiving my Doctorate of Ministry from Vanderbilt Divinity School in Nashville. It’s been a lot of hard work. For my project I read hundreds of articles and books, conducted interviews, presented ideas to colleagues, tested ideas on various groups, and wrote, edited, re-wrote, and re-edited until I had a project to present to my committee. Then after my committee read it, we met and I had to defend my project thesis orally. Finally, on April 9 I passed. On May 10 I’ll graduate and receive my official title D.Min, Doctor of Ministry in Integrative Mental Health Chaplaincy. The afternoon I passed my wife Karen said “Hello, Dr. Fletcher.” I said, “That’s the only time you’re ever going to call me that, right?” She said, “Absolutely, I hope you enjoyed it.”
So, I’ve been feeling relieved, accomplished, grateful, and good about having achieved this milestone in my academic and professional career.
But God had a lot more to teach me. And Brother Paul put his finger on it. In 1 Corinthians 13:1-3 Paul is saying a lifetime of accomplishments, being a gifted speaker, full of knowledge, or being spiritually gifted with miraculous powers, in the absence of concrete acts of love, is just a bunch of noise. You can get all the degrees and accolades and knowledge, but if you don’t put love into practice, it’s a bunch of noise and worthless.
It reminds me of a story I once heard: There was a child psychologist who was famous and had written many best-selling books on parenting and how to raise children. Recently, he had spent many hours constructing a new driveway at his home. Just after he smoothed the surface of the freshly poured concrete, his neighbors’ small children chased a ball across the driveway, leaving deep footprints. The man yelled after them with a torrent of angry words. His shocked neighbor heard these words and said to him, “You’re a psychologist who’s supposed to love children.” The fuming man shouted, “I love children in the abstract, not in the concrete!”
Paul is saying in I Corinthians 13:1-3 that love in the abstract is worthless.
A few days later, God showed me what love in the concrete looks like. I shared the following story on my Facebook page recently. It resonated with a lot of people because it’s been shared hundreds of times and I’ve heard more responses to it than anything else I’ve ever posted on social media. It illustrates to me what Love in the Concrete looks like:
I met Jesus yesterday. Face to face.
He’s a cashier at a grocery store in Front Royal, Virginia.
I was on my way home from work after a busy Monday visiting sick patients at the hospital, supporting families as their loved ones face the end of life, helping people struggling with addiction and staff cope with the challenges of being full-time caregivers. I’m a chaplain and a pastor, that’s what I do all day. It’s what I’ve trained to do, studied, practiced.
But then, yesterday, out of the blue, with no warning I met Jesus working the register at a grocery store.
First, I saw him patiently help the customer ahead of me. The one who only had 3 items in her cart, was very confused trying to figure out how much she could spend because she needed to have enough left over. He was gentle and patient with her. He couldn’t be more than his late teens, maybe early 20s, but he was attentive and caring. No eye rolls or looks of frustration, just caring for this confused and frustrated woman. (I was the one who was frustrated at how long it was taking).
Then it was finally my turn to check out. He was a thin young man, wearing a cross made of horseshoe nails and wire. He smiled and asked gently, “May I pray for you?”
That was unexpected and caught me completely off guard. I said, “Yes, please.” I was so moved that this young man would take the time to notice me and ask if he could pray for me. This was more than a transactional relationship for him. He was there to do more than simply earn his paycheck and go home. He saw me as more than an object, a thing to help pay his bills, he saw me as a person, a human being made in the image of God, who has a life outside of this 5-minute transaction and has needs that can be helped by God’s intervention. I was deeply moved.
But he wasn’t finished.
“What would you like me to pray for?” What should I say? How specific should I be? Should I say, “I’m currently under treatment for 2 types of advanced cancer and trying my best to keep going?” Should I tell him about my concerns about family members that I love, my desire to help my Church grow, and all the needs of the people I visit and staff I serve in the hospital?
There wasn’t time to go into all of that, so I simply said “My health.”
He stopped and said, “So you are having health problems. I’ll pray for that.”
By then the tears were starting to well up in me and I hurriedly helped him bag my groceries so I could get out of there before I started ugly crying in the grocery store check-out line.
But he wasn’t done yet.
“What’s your name?” That about finished me off. He wasn’t just making conversation or using spiritual cliches like “I’ll pray for you” as well-intentioned people often do, but sometimes forget to actually do. I knew that he really meant it. He was and is praying for me, Jeff, who has health needs. And based on what I saw, he’s already pretty close to God. So I have a feeling God will listen attentively to his prayers.
As I sat in my car afterward waiting for the tears to subside, I had the overwhelming sense that I had just spent time with Jesus.
I met Jesus yesterday.
He works as a cashier at a grocery store in Front Royal, Virginia.
Since I shared this on Facebook I’ve had dozens of people who live locally write to me or tell me in the hospital that this same young man has left others equally in tears when he prayed for them and they, too, equally felt touched by Jesus.
This young man probably doesn’t have a doctorate in spiritual care, but you don’t need one of those to show people concrete love in the name of Jesus. Go and be Jesus wherever you are today.
Pastor Jeff Fletcher
Reflection Questions
Name a time when you were surprised by God’s love revealed to you in unexpected places.
How would you describe the difference between abstract love and concrete love?
The young man showed Jesus’ love while checking people out at the grocery store. Where can you show the love of Jesus today?
I love baseball. (If you don’t, don’t leave just yet, please). Baseball is a team sport. This was put on display for me recently. I was watching a Washington Nationals game this weekend and the commentators brought in a retired pitcher who used to play for the Nationals in their 2019 World Series winning season. During the playoffs that year, Anibal Sanchez came very close to pitching a no-hitter. It was broken up in the 8th inning by a Cardinals batter. When asked about it Sanchez said he wouldn’t have come close to having a no-hitter without his teammates making great plays. He said no pitcher should ever get sole credit for a no-hitter. It’s impossible without your teammates making plays. Sanchez wasn’t just being humble, he was 100% right. It takes a catcher to catch the pitch, fielders to make plays and throw the ball to first, outfielders to run and catch fly balls. Without good teammates, you can’t pitch a no-hitter. When a no-hitter does happen, or even rarer a perfect game, the pitcher gets the accolades and they stick a microphone in his face after the game, but it was a team effort.
The same is true for the Church. That’s what Paul was trying to get at in 1 Corinthians 12. There are a few people that are “up front” during a worship service. The worship leader, the soloist, the scripture reader, and the pastor all have visible roles and they are important. But they aren’t the only important people. Many important people are working behind the scenes in nearly invisible ways. The person running the sound system is important. The pianist, guitar player, and other musicians are important. The person who makes the coffee before Sunday School is important. The people who set up tables for Church dinners are important. The people who teach children’s church are important. The people who clean the bathrooms, take out the trash, and vacuum the floors are important. The people who buy toilet paper are important, very important. If those people don’t do their jobs what have you got? A mess. Also important are the people who type the bulletin and change the slides with the worship song lyrics, and the people who make sure that the heat is turned on or the a/c is turned on. All of these people are important. So are the people who faithfully place their financial contributions in the offering, and the people who count and collect those offerings, and the people who write checks so that the pastor can feed their family and the lights stay on. Even in smaller churches, it takes a lot of people to share their gifts and talents.
Apparently, in the Church at Corinth, there was a lot of jealousy and rivalry going on between Christians. It was causing division in the Church. The Apostle Paul wrote this letter to correct some of those problems. He wanted them to understand that Churches need to maintain unity to be healthy and carry out the mission that God has given us to do. Everyone in the church is not gifted in the same way. Some people love to be up front serving in visible ways. Some people are not gifted to speak or lead worship, but they have other gifts. I have a special needs sister, Christine, who wants to help and has claimed her gifts by handing out the church bulletins. She grabs a stack and goes to each person in Sunday School and gives them a bulletin. She wants to help by sharing her gifts. She also loves to sing very loudly in worship and her exuberance is infectious. (And she likes to say “amen” when her brother the preacher says that he’s winding up the sermon).
Read through all of the Apostle Paul’s letters in the New Testament and see how much Paul depended on others to help him carry out his ministry. Often when he wrote letters to encourage and teach Churches he was in jail for preaching the Gospel of Jesus, which was a threat to both the religious leaders and the Roman Empire. Paul depended on people to take the letters he wrote from prison and deliver them to the Churches. He also depended on people to bring him food, an extra blanket, his books and letters, and medicine. He had poor eyesight so he depended on a secretary to write down his words. He also longed for fellowship with other followers of Jesus. Paul was the face of much of the teaching and spread of the Church in the first century, but it took a team to support him.
What are some ways that you are serving in your Church? You can’t start too early. Our church has a 7-year-old help take up the offering some Sundays. As you read through 1 Corinthians 12, try not to get too bogged down thinking about the theological issues that continue to divide Christians today (are the spiritual gifts Paul mentions for now or did they stop after the first century?) It’s amazing how this chapter that Paul wrote to help a church not be divided has caused many Christians to disagree and divide. If God decides to give you the gift of miracles or healing, who am I to tell you that God did away with those gifts 1900 years ago? (if you do have the gifts of miracle or healing, please come visit me, I could use it.)
Remember, there is no “ I” in “Team”. And there is no I in Church. It’s all about how we use the gifts God has given each of us to serve.
Pastor Jeff Fletcher
Reflection Questions
What similarities do you see between sports teams or work teams and the team work needed to carry out the work of Jesus and the Church?
Are you currently using any of your gifts to help carry out the mission of the Church?
Are you willing to test your gifts and potentially experience some failures and disappointments as you seek to carry out the mission of Jesus Christ and the Church? What will you try and risk next?
In the Seek Grow Love reading plan, we are given the opportunity to connect with the Old and New Testament each day, and one pro of reading the Bible this way is the opportunity to see connections and evidence of a sovereign God directing things, weaving things together from beginning to end. It is especially nice for me when the New Testament authors clearly state the connections like we run across today in 1 Corinthians 10. Immediately following a paragraph of Old Testament events from over 1000 years before, we then see several verses connecting the past to the present. Verse 11 makes it very clear that the events of the Old Testament were expected to be studied and known by Christians under the new covenant and had a benefit for their learning:
“These things happened to them as examples and were written down as warnings for us, on whom the culmination of the ages has come. So, if you think you are standing firm, be careful that you don’t fall! No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. . .” (1 Corinthians 10:11-13)
In this case, it appears the “things that happened” referenced in this verse include the Israelites crossing the Red Sea, being under a cloud, God being displeased with them in the wilderness, eating manna, getting water from a rock, etc. If we have read the Old Testament stories, these things are familiar to us, but we see in 1 Corinthians that some of the connections referenced are symbolic and a foreshadowing of what is to come when the Messiah comes on the scene, not necessarily the exact same events repeated. For example, the Israelites were not literally baptized in the Red Sea and a cloud. We are told they crossed on dry ground, they were set apart and led by God, and we can certainly identify how that connects to what Jesus brings us in salvation and protection for believers. The same idea is evident in verse 4 where we are told they drank from a rock and that rock was Christ. They did not literally drink from Jesus, nor was a rock following them around in the wilderness. While Jesus existed in the plan and complete foreknowledge of God at that time, the Messiah was not even born yet, and I feel the need to emphasize this after seeing some very confusing commentaries out there on this passage. It appears that Paul is using a familiar story from the Old Testament as a teaching metaphor comparing what was achieved through the Messiah to the provision and salvation God gave the Israelites. For a lovely chat on this subject, I highly recommend 21st Century Reformation’s video commentary below:
I find this to be a good reminder that God has had a plan for all time and His ways are better than ours. I also find comfort that just like the Israelites did reach the promised land, we also have promises yet to be fulfilled for a place even better than Canaan when Jesus comes back as king.
-Jennifer Hall
Questions:
How does it make you feel to know that God has had a plan of salvation for you since the very beginning?
What other examples of foreshadowing can you think of from the Bible?
Since Paul tells us the Israelites were examples for those generations which came later, and warns us not to be cocky in thinking we are standing firm, what can we do to help us not fall?
What an eclectic list of characters! Any guess on what they have in common?
They were all underdogs, devalued by society, and yet through some combination of luck, magic, leadership, divine appointment, and/or wise counsel, they went on to do mighty things. Though some characters in that list are fictional, there are plenty more true accounts in the pages of your Bible and in ancient and recent history of people overcoming opposition and obstacles to become the Greats we know today.
In I Corinthians 1, we read about how we were nothing special before we were saved by God’s grace and grafted into his family, that He often chooses the “underdogs” to do His work. In chapter 2, Paul reiterates that we need the wisdom and power of the Spirit in order to understand and speak the things of God; Paul clarifies that even he, who we now know as one of the greatest missionaries of all time, “did not come with eloquence or human wisdom as I proclaimed to you the testimony about God… My message and my preaching were not with wise and persuasive words, but with a demonstration of the Spirit’s power, so that your faith might not rest on human wisdom, but on God’s power” (verses 1, 4-5). Now, in the third chapter, while recapitulating to the Corinthians how we are all foolish without God, Paul is addressing quarrels and jealousy among the believers, reminding the Church how important it is to be united.
I bet that a lot of the same words he wrote to the people back then would also be penned to us today; we humans can still tend to think we’re all that and a bag of potato chips with no need for God, and division still dominates our fleshly nature. As a mom, I’ve broken up more quarrels than I can count; it seems that my kids will find a reason to argue with each other about anything and everything! And as the wife of a pastor, I’ve seen division rear its ugly head in the church too many times. Churches have even split over petty things such as decor. It seems silly that we find trivial things to bicker about when there are bigger issues plaguing the world today such as war, poverty, and human trafficking.
In this chapter, Paul emphasizes that we are all working together for God, but God is the real Force that makes anything happen. Paul reminds us that we are all on the same team, building on the foundation laid by Jesus Christ. In typical Paul fashion, he keeps us humble by reminding us of our foolishness; in modern-day terms, though we might have thick wallets or a string of letters behind our names indicating our importance in this world, we are all nothing without God.
I’m always encouraged when I see Christians set aside their differences to work as one unit for a good cause, or when churches with very different doctrines join hands to reach their communities for Christ. We are meant to be one body: the body of Christ. It is crucial that we as believers unite hands and hearts for God’s eternal mission.
-Rachel Cain
Reflection:
– Consider ways that you can help create unity and decrease division within your own church family. (A good place to start is to not participate in gossip).
– Are there any local organizations with which your church or your own family could join to show the love of Jesus to your local community? State? The world?
Old Testament Reading: Numbers Introduction – see below
1 Corinthians 13 (The Love Chapter) actually begins at the end of Chapter 12 with these words, “And now I will show you the most excellent way.” Paul has just wrapped up his lists of Spiritual gifts, reminding us that we, as Christians, are all members of the body of Christ. After telling us that we should desire the higher (more essential or useful) gifts, he states that there is an even better way to be useful to the body. The most excellent way.
Chapter 13 begins with an IF. IF I am great, IF I can do great things, IF I can understand great things, IF I make great sacrifices….
What are you really good at? Known for? Everyone in our church knows Todd is phenomenal with numbers. He has often said it’s too bad he can’t make a living impressing people with his quick math skills. Everyone is good at something, but that might not matter in the big picture.
The IF part in the first three verses is followed each time with “but have not love”. You can be the greatest at everything, but if you don’t have love you are “a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal”, “nothing’, “gain nothing”. That’s pretty powerful. What motivates us to do what we do obviously matters a great deal. Paul is trying to communicate with us the overriding importance of love.
You’ve probably heard verses 4-8a read at a wedding. A beautiful description of how to love. One that we cannot fully accomplish in our humanity. Pulling from different translations, here is the description of true love:
Love is: patient; kind; rejoices with the truth; bears all things; believes all things; hopes all things; endures all things; it always protects, trusts, hopes, and perseveres; it never ends or fails.
Love is not: it does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant, proud, or rude; it does not insist on its own way; it is not self-seeking; it is not easily angered; it keeps no record of wrongs; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing.
Love won’t end. Spiritual gifts, and our need for them will end. Prophecies will end. Speaking in tongues will end. Knowledge will end. Love will not end.
Keep in mind as you read these lists that God loves us like that. God loves YOU like that. John 13:34-35 says, “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.” We are to love others how God loves us. It’s what shows the world we are His.
-Todd and Amy Blanchard
Reflection Questions
Do you KNOW that God loves you with a love that is described here? Do you FEEL His love? What steps might you need to take to assure yourself of that love?
On a scale of 1-10, how well do you love others (following the description of love in this chapter)?
Which of the “Love is” or “Love is not” traits do you see from God in your life right now?
NUMBERS INTRODUCTION
The book of Numbers gets its name from the census that was taken both at the beginning of the book, while the Israelites were still at Mount Sinai, and also at the end of the book, when the Israelites were on the plains of Moab near Jericho 38 years later. And in case you’re wondering why it took the ancient Israelites so long to travel from Egypt to the Promised Land, you’ll find out in chapters 13 and 14. And by the way, this wasn’t just a small group of people walking through the desert – there were millions of them.
As you read through Numbers, you will see repeatedly that there are consequences for complaining and rebellion – and they aren’t good. Punishments range from fire from the Lord to the earth swallowing people alive to plagues to snakes. There will even be punishment for Moses’ striking a rock instead of speaking to it – because he didn’t obey God’s command.
You will read about Moses begging God repeatedly to spare the people, when God wanted to wipe them out because of their rebellion – reminding us of what Jesus is doing on our behalf in heaven right now. You’ll also read about a bronze snake lifted up on a pole, which Jesus compared with himself.
The story of Balaam and his talking donkey show that God can use anyone, even a donkey, even me, even you. You’ll also read about how Balaam told the Moabites what to do to cause God to curse Israel – even after Balaam had blessed Israel. And you’ll read that he paid with his life.
Numbers is filled with excitement, and also with examples – both good and bad. Paul tells us in 1 Corinthians 10:6, “Now these things occurred as examples to keep us from setting our hearts on evil things as they did.” So pay attention as you read.
I’ll close with Numbers 6:24-26, “The Lord bless you and keep you; the Lord make his face shine upon you and be gracious to you; the Lord turn his face toward you and give you peace.”
My parents tried very hard to treat me and my sisters equally. Especially when it came to spending money or giving gifts. The idea that one might get more or better than the other, or perceived more or better, has made gift giving stressful for them. And now there are grandkids and great grandkids! We chose to handle gift-giving a little differently. Of course, we try to be close in what we spend, but if a gift is found that someone really wants or needs we go with it. Whether it’s a little more or less than the others.
In 1 Corinthians 12, Paul tells us of God’s gifts. The first important thing to note is that it says in verse 7 that “to each is given the manifestation of the Spirit..” Everyone who is part of the body of believers has been given Spiritual gifts. That means you if you have accepted Jesus as your Savior. The end of verse 7 tells us why. It says, “…for the common good”. We are to use the gifts given to us for the common good of the church – to support, encourage, build up, protect, provide for, teach, etc. This chapter describes many of these gifts. We are told that there are many gifts, but that they all come from the same Spirit. Verse 18 says, “But as it is, God arranged the members in the body, each one of them, as he chose.“ As he chose. He gives us what we need, what he wants us to have, not what we want or wish for. Think for a minute about your church and the people in it. This verse is telling you that God chose each member, that he arranged them (gifted them) just how he wanted. Now think for a minute about where you might fit in. You see, God’s plan only works when everyone does their part; when everyone uses the gifts God has given them for the common good of the body.
Our passage in Leviticus demonstrates another parenting thought. When we wanted our kids to obey a specific command, we let them know what good things would happen if they chose to do so (we really built it up big). We also told them what would happen if they chose to disobey (we tried to make this choice sound horrible). We learned that oftentimes it is in the presentation. God wants his children to obey Him at all times. In Leviticus 26 God says, “If you walk in my statutes and observe my commandments and do them, then I will give you….”. He lists rain in season, abundant harvests, security, peace, victories, and His presence (verses 3-13). He goes on to tell them, “But if you will not listen to me and will not do all these commandments, if you spurn my statutes, and if your soul abhors my rules, so that you will not do all my commandments, but break my covenant, then I will do this to you:…”. He then tells them that they will deal with panic, wasting disease, enemies eating their harvests, wild beasts, and be scattered among the nations (verses 14-33). The list for disobedience is long and nasty. It seems like such a “duh” decision. Of course they, and we, want the blessings and good stuff. But they didn’t always choose to obey. We don’t always choose to obey. Thankfully, God also provides a way for us to change our minds and make the right choice. Verses 40-45 say, “But if they confess their iniquity….then I will remember my covenant with Jacob…and Isaac…and Abraham…that I might be their God…”.
-Todd and Amy Blanchard
Reflection Questions
There are a lot of Spiritual gifts “tests” online. And they can be fun to take. However, one of the best ways to know what your gifts are is to try some different ministries or acts of service. Which ones fill you up? Which ones drain you? Notice I didn’t ask which ones you were best at. God will help you learn. God will help you find courage. He will provide opportunities for you to grow in your gifts, so you don’t need to worry about doing it really well right away.
What choices are you currently facing? Do any of them have the “duh” right answer?
What traits did you find in today’s reading that describe God?
Have you ever wondered why some things “made it” into the Bible? Why do we need to hear about what people did thousands of years ago? 1 Corinthians 10 gives us one reason. In verses 6 and 11 Paul writes that these things took place as examples for us. He was referencing the Israelites as they wandered in the desert and telling us not to do the things they did (indulging in sexual immorality, putting God to the test, grumbling, etc.).
Yesterday we talked about God’s expectations. Sometimes rather than just giving us a list of do’s and do not’s He gives us examples of others’ choices and how that worked out for them. We can look in the Bible and find a lot of examples of people who made good choices and bad choices. We can learn from both of these.
We can also learn from David’s example in Psalm 57. Many of the Psalms tell us what the circumstances were when it was written. This one says it was when David fled from Saul into a cave.
Verses 1-3 – David cries out to God, believing He will save him
Verse 4 – David tells God some of his problems
Verse 5 – David exalts God
Verse 6 – David tells God more of his problems
Verses 7-11 – David tells God that his heart belongs to Him; he gives thanks and sings praises to God
It seems as if David does believe in God’s ability to protect him, but at the same time sees the big problems that are in his life at that moment. He reminds himself of God’s faithfulness, but the fears and trials don’t go away. He finally simply decides to praise God and recognize Him for his greatness, even in the midst of his difficult circumstances.
-Todd and Amy Blanchard
Reflection Questions
What can you praise God for right now in your life, no matter what your circumstances are?
Whose example in the Bible do you want to follow? Whose do you want to avoid?
Are you being a good example of a faithful child of God for others to follow?
What character trait of God did you see in today’s reading?
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