
Old Testament: Micah 5-7
Poetry: Psalm 137
New Testament: Matthew 23
We are all concerned with how we look to others on the outside, and that is a good thing. The outside is all the stuff people can see about us. It is how we physically look, the things we own, the words we say, our actions, our reputation, etc. It might sound a bit vain to be concerned about what others think about us, but it is ok to want to be accepted by others and you will have more influence with others if they like you and respect you. The inside is all our thoughts and desires, and others cannot hear our thoughts or know if we are being honest about our desires. We can hide our true thoughts and desires from those around us, although nothing is hidden from God. Which is more important? The way others see us on the outside or what we are thinking on the inside?
I think they are both important and we should be concerned about both. But what happens if we concentrate on only one or the other? In Matthew 23, Jesus talks about a group of people that were only concerned about the outside. The Pharisees and teachers of the law were overly concerned about what other people thought of them. They made their phylacteries (boxes containing scripture verses worn on their forehead and arm) wide and the tassels on their garments long for people to see. They loved places of honor at banquets and the most important seats in the synagogues. They loved to be greeted with respect and to be called ‘Rabbi’ by others. They gave a tenth to God’s work, but they neglected justice, mercy, and faithfulness. They appeared to be righteous on the outside, but they were full of hypocrisy and wickedness on the inside. Jesus detested the way they lived because it was not honest, and they only did it to impress others. They were arrogant hypocrites, and that’s not a good look on the inside or outside.
Similarly, if we are ultra concerned about how our bodies look, the clothes we wear, the car we drive, the house we live in, etc., we are concentrating on the wrong things because we are trying too hard to impress others so we can feel good about ourselves. That is also not a good look reputation-wise because we are lacking humility. On the other hand, please brush your teeth, take a shower, and take care of your house and yard enough so others won’t think you don’t care.
So, what happens if you only concentrate on the inside? I love what Matthew 23:25-26 had to say about this. Jesus was ripping on the Pharisees and teachers of the law again by saying they clean the outside of the cup and dish, but inside they are full of greed and self-indulgence. He goes on to tell them to first clean the inside of the cup and dish, and then the outside will also be clean. That is brilliant! If you concentrate on your thoughts and desires on the inside that others can’t see, it will affect how you look on the outside to others. In other words, focus on the inside and the outside will take care of itself.
If you love God and love others on the inside, your words and actions will look beautiful to others because of your love for them and because you are not putting yourself first. Verse 12 says, “For those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted.” It is important to look good on the outside and inside, but you need to focus on getting the inside right, not the outside. The better you look on the inside, the better you will look on the outside as well. You will be a truly humble and loving person, rather than an arrogant hypocrite.
Reflection Questions:
Should we be concerned about what others think about us? Why or why not?
What are some practical steps we can take to “work on our insides”?
-Rick McClain




